🌱 Why Leadership Duplication Matters
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “If it has to be done by me, it won’t grow beyond me.” That’s especially true in Mary Kay.
You can only hold so many skincare appointments. You can only coach so many consultants one-on-one. But when you intentionally invest in others and teach them to lead, everything changes. You’re no longer the only engine of momentum—you’re now the architect of a movement.
Mary Kay Ash herself didn’t build an empire by doing it all. She built people—and they built the business.
🔄 Real-World Duplication: Letting Others Shine
Here’s a Mary Kay-specific breakdown of what duplication can look like in action:
đź’» Zoom Leadership Rotation
Instead of running every unit Zoom or recognition night, delegate parts of it:
- A newer consultant can read recognition shoutouts.
- A future Director can lead the inspiration moment.
- A seasoned team member can run a booking or recruiting training.
Example: Director Julia noticed her future offspring Director was nervous to speak up. She gave her the role of leading the monthly Product Spotlight segment. After three months, she was leading full events and coaching new consultants herself.
🎯 Ownership in Team Challenges
Let rising stars lead a 7-day booking blitz, a skincare sampling challenge, or a “share the opportunity” week.
- Give them a framework, then let them run with it.
- Cheer them on in your team group, and highlight their success in front of others.
Result: It boosts their confidence, visibility, and influence—all while freeing you up to work more strategically.
đź§ Action Step: Build a Leadership Track
To truly develop leaders, you need more than praise—you need a process. Here’s how to start:
1. Identify Emerging Leaders
Look for women who:
- Show initiative without being asked
- Encourage others naturally
- Are consistent in sales or attendance
- Ask “how can I help?”
Choose three to start developing.
2. Set Up Monthly Growth Calls
These are not typical coaching calls. They focus on:
- Leadership mindset
- Goal-setting and vision-casting
- Time management
- Delegation and duplication
- Navigating tough conversations or discouragement
Ask empowering questions like:
- “What’s one area of leadership you want to grow in?”
- “What’s your dream for your future unit?”
- “How can I support you in stepping up?”
3. Create Opportunities for Them to Lead
Let them:
- Present at a skincare class or event
- Train at a unit meeting
- Host a product party or opportunity chat
- Mentor a new consultant in a buddy system
Celebrate Them Loudly: Recognition isn’t just for sales—it’s for leadership. Post a shoutout, make a custom graphic, or highlight their story at your next meeting.
đź’ˇ Final Thought: Legacy Is Leadership
Sales build a unit. Recruiting builds a team. But developing leaders builds a legacy. The most powerful thing you can do as a Director or top consultant isn’t filling every role—it’s multiplying yourself through the lives of others.
When you take the time to raise up other leaders, you’re not just changing your life—you’re empowering them to change theirs, too. That’s the kind of ripple effect Mary Kay herself dreamed of.